Breastfeeding: It Takes A Village

Breastfeeding: It Takes A Village

Breastfeeding: It Takes A Village


I didn’t know much about being a mother before Hudson was born, but one thing I did know was that I wanted to breast feed. I remember as soon as he was born they put him on my chest and told me to breastfeed him and I panicked. It was all well and good to know what I wanted him to do, but I didn’t have a clue how to get him to do it.

I spent three long days in the hospital with every midwife, lactation consultant, and doctor they had trying to get Hudson to latch. I stayed up all night expressing colostrum into a syringe so that I could feed him. I used hospital pumps, manual pumps, and expressed until my hands ached but my sweet boy just couldn’t figure out his latch. At the time I felt like a failure. I remember crying in the hospital bed not wanting to call for a midwife againΒ but knowing that I had to. I remember watching them correct his latch and holding onto their every word with hopes that the next time would be the time we would get it right without their help. I remember feeling hopeless.

Those first few weeks were long and painful and there were so many times I wanted to give up. So many times where I needed help but didn’t know who to ask. I was a young mom and didn’t have a support system around to help me understand that what I was experiencing was normal. Not to mention the hormones and exhaustion that come with the territory.

I am so glad that I was able to persevere and ultimately breastfeed Hudson until he was 20 months, but looking back, I wish I had someone in my court cheering me on. Now that I’m pregnant with baby number two and I know how daunting the process can be, I have looked into help with options for helping my breastfeeding journey with my little one to be as seamless as possible. I don’t want to feel alone and guilty. I don’t want to struggle in silence.

I want to feel empowered.

Happy Family has created a platform for new (or experienced) moms who need a little extra help in their breastfeeding journey. They offer infant feeding support by their Happy Mama Milk Mentors, lactation consultants and Cornell-Certified Nutritionists from 8am-8pm Monday-Friday. Oh how I wish this was available all those days and nights when I was crying by myself trying to get Hudson to latch.What I would have done to hear another mom say, “Girl, you are not alone. We have all been there. This too shall pass.”

They are available to support you emotionally and physically and the best part is that they are all moms, just like us. They say it takes a village to raise a baby and Happy Family is doing their part to provide you with a support system so that you can make the best feeding decisions for your baby. Their experts will chat to you about everything from breastfeeding to supplementing to formula feeding so you never feel judged or unsure in your decisions.

No new mom should spend those first precious weeks feeling anxious and guilty about breastfeeding. Let Happy Family be your village.

If you are a new mom or expecting your first baby and curious about feeding options available or want to talk to a lactation specialist who can help prepare you for feeding your new infant, I urge you to check out their website and take a few minutes to read through the information they have available! I did and i’m so so glad because even as a mom of a toddler, I learned so much I didn’t know.

For more information about their infant feeding support platform, click HERE.

Having a baby is the most amazing experience and shouldn’t be hindered by howΒ you ultimately choose to feed them. You have to do what is best for you and your baby. I hope you enjoy this platform and the amazing resources it provides as much as I do!

Always,

Alexie

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6 Comments
  • Nicole says:

    This is such a great resource!! I had the support of my husband after we left the birthing center and I will always love him for it. Outside family wasn’t as helpful. My side was great until my son turned one and still nursing. My husband’s side was always weirded out even if you were covered, I would have to hide in a bedroom during events because I could feel the tension! Seriously the worst! Thanks for sharing this, it could really help someone..

    • atflook@gmail.com says:

      yes!! I was a hider too! I wish I had someone to tell me it was okay in those early days! Thanks so much for reaching out πŸ™‚

  • Kerry says:

    What a great service they are offering! I’m saving this for future reference. I’ll be having baby #2 in October.

  • Coppelia says:

    It DOES take a village. And I wish I could’ve been there to cheer you on! It was hard for me in the beginning, too. I remember my mom saying ” it’s going to be hard, but stick it out for the first few weeks and I promise it gets better!” I’m thankful for lactation consultants, La Leche League groups, nursing friends and a supportive hubby (who was reluctant at first!) I honestly couldn’t have done it without the village!

  • Erika Ortega says:

    Those were my exact same feelings with my first born and I felt like a failure. Back then I didn’t get the full support so I ended up giving up by the second month. With my last son I decided from the very beginning not to give up. And with my moms support and my husbands it went so much better. Plus also I feel it’s more accepting now and I love the support other moms give each other instead of expecting you to feel like you must hide and cover while you try and feed your baby

  • Sheila says:

    I hope this time around is easier for you! Glad you have a resource to share for other moms in your situation.

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I am a twenty-something year old world-traveler, turned stay at home mom! I live in England with my 7 month old son, beautiful British husband, and neurotic boxer dog! This space is filled with personal thoughts, fun reviews, and down-to-earth chats about my journey through motherhood! Grab a cuppa and enjoy a browse.

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